A scoffer
does not love one who corrects him, Nor will he go to the wise.
Proverbs 15:12
It's not always easy to receive criticism or correction. The words often
seem harsh or even unfair, but if we will receive them, instead of
becoming defensive we will learn and grow from it. Most of the time, we
allow ourselves to become angry because our feelings are hurt or our
egos crushed. Not all criticism directed towards us is for our good.
There are those whose sole purpose in saying something, is to make us
angry. There is no need for us to oblige. But when the words are offered
in love, it is then up to us to reflect on them and truly hear and
receive them. If we ignore the wisdom and correction and stick our heads
in the sand, we will stop growing and maturing. We can know without any
doubt, correction or criticism that God intends for us, will be
constructive and meant for our good. It is easy to ignore or avoid the
truth about ourselves, but if we will allow our hearts to hear the
instructions God has purposed and receive them, we will grow in wisdom
and strength.
Prayer
Give us the strength and the courage to face criticism and to accept
correction. We are sometimes afraid to face the truth about ourselves,
it is easier to become angry and turn away, we need Your strength to
receive and not hide from the life changing words offered in love. Amen.
