My little
children let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth.
1 John 3:18
Sometimes the truth hurts. We will go to great lengths, not to offend
someone and sometimes we go too far. Truth applied with love is
beneficial and although it may sting, it will quickly heal and reap much
more benefit than harm in the end. It is much easier to pacify someone
and remain in their good graces, but this compromise causes us to no
longer be true to ourselves, or to the other person. Relationships, no
matter what kind, must be based upon truth and honesty; when its not, it
will certainly cause a strain on the best of relationships. We must live
every part of our lives, according to the truth of God's word. What a
disservice, to allow those whom we love to be deceived. Our motivation
should always be love and assisting others as their relationship with
God flourishes, not condemning and finger pointing. Love must be our
motivation in all things. Not only should we speak the truth in love,
but also be able to receive it in love.
Prayer
Lord help me to always be true, to myself and others. Holy Spirit give
me the wisdom and words of love and truth to share with others. I desire
to grow in Your knowledge and truth. Help me to be honest and to speak
and receive Your truth in love. Amen.
